tired, bored, perpetually online and more

back on this account after i thought i was doing well in life

I've been really just bored out of my mind lately, school is a bich and life is just uninteresting in a nutshell

i havent been motivated to do anything, been a little obsessed with a series lately but thats about it, got myself a long distance bf but we can only talk in a specific game's chat and i havent been playing that game for over 2 weeks now, i feel really bad for ghosting him but the motivation just really isnt there :(

ive also been really tired lately does anyone know what that means?

i wanted to go outside today but my sister doesnt want to go and my mom says its "too late" even tho all i want is go the the dollar shop a few blocks away and buy some candy for period comfort and its only 5 pm (so unfair)

im not feeling well, thats my verdict

anyone have tips or suggestions?

ps i speak and undersrand french i just prefer typing in english if you get me, if you understadn english pls pls pls respond im actualy dying of boredom >:(

@ChienBrillant14

Hey @ChienBrillant14 🤍

Oof… I see that it’s tough right now; I get how boredom and a loss of motivation for anything can make you feel :/

Sometimes, these time periods, when you feel bored and unmotivated can feel everlasting, but there is always a way out. I don’t wanna sound too cheesy, but there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel :)

I don’t want to make you think even more about boredom, but I do want to encourage you to think about how this boredom phase started for you. Do you remember what happened a bit before; how were you feeling compared to how you are feeling right now? I think it may be helpful to compare your emotional states and other stuff that was happening in your life just to get a look at the bigger picture :)

About this boredom feeling, would you be comfortable talking about it with your bf maybe? or your mom? or sis? It may be a good idea to do a little check-up with them to hear how they’re doing too, so you can catch up on conversations about emotions that you may have not had in a while. It can help you (and others) to strengthen bonds with family, friends, etc  :)

Also, I think it wouldn’t hurt to maybe try out some new things too! What are your thoughts on going to an improvised picnic with friends and/or family, going to a close park over the weekend to do your homework there, to have a meaningful conversation or to play a game, etc. 

In other words, I think changing up your environment can really help when you feel bored. That’s because you kinda got “used” to your surroundings and routine, and adding even one new things into your daily life can make it this much exciting. 

I encourage you to be bold, to try out new activities, to switch up your usual ways to do a certain task by changing your environment for example. You got this, and you’ll get through it. trust 🤍

Don’t hesitate to reach out on the forum; we’ll be there. Take care :)

@ChienBrillant14

Hey @ChienBrillant14!

I understand how you feel tired and demotivated all the time... it's completely valid!

You know, I can't exactly tell you why you're feeling this way, but I can assure you that it's normal to sometimes feel like everything seems hard, unfair, and demotivating...

It's perfectly okay...

However, you can still take steps to improve your mood a bit!

Have you considered trying out new activities? Stepping out of your comfort zone, even if you're not entirely up for it?

You could experiment with cooking, painting, DIY projects, diamond painting, bracelet making, drawing, or even trying a new sport...

Perhaps suggest to your parents the idea of starting a new class, like a drama or dance class.

Exploring new things might lead you to discover new hobbies and passions!

Who knows what you might find!

Remember, it's normal to experience highs and lows, and personally, what really helps me are my own passions and hobbies!

I hope my advice was helpful :)

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