I’m scared
RoseOptimiste7
elle/elle
I don’t know what to do and school is starting soon. I am shit at school by complete honesty I fail in everything I try, I double my maths and I’m still failing at it! I am overwhelmed and well obese, I don’t want anyone to be like oh your still beautiful and any bull shit, I look like a dumpster. I barely shower or take care of myself hair or anything, I’m a mess, I am self conscious and aware that I should do something about it but I don’t. Forced in a suit I can’t take off and being mad to the person I care the most about, I can’t hurt people feelings because mines are dead, right? Yet I do so every day. I feel like a monster for hurting people, I feel like I deserve to hurt and bleed for atrocious things I’ve done, locking myself in my mind but if I do so it’s enveloping myself in the suit I wanna burn. I hate it, it’s the reflection of what I hate the most, ugly fat idiotic people who think they are above it all. A mirror. The suit is just whom have I been watching from afar without taking action to stop the truth. I don’t want to accept I’m not traumatized from the suit. I love the suit, the comfort of its laziness appeals me. I don’t want to stay in it yet I yeild to it every day.. I want to build a new suit but the monster is in the way and I don’t feel any good or hope. I want life to scream and make me cry so I accept the truth that I am still in the suit every single damn day. I want to kill myself but before someone goes on to tell me how it’s bad, I know it is I’m not an idiot. I don’t want to face life. I am weak, I should fight for my life because I have a chance compared to others but I don’t, I got thrown 2 times or more erasers at me and get laughed at over the years and I have no self respect and esteem for myself and I overeat every day, I scream at my sisters sometimes because I bottle up my feelings, I clean every day since my mom has health problems and works too, my dad sleeps in the day and works in the night the whole week and weekends. The house is a mess and it drains me and my sisters don’t even help. I’m scared to go back to school, I skipped every gym class because I’m scared and now that we’re going back to school on 9 January I’m scared. I rather be in a mental hospital honestly. I hate gym class and I feel like the most stressful annoying piece of shit. I rather be nothing than go there
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SushisAudacieuse3
elle/elle
2hMes ami(e)s et leurs dramasJ'ai des amies très... Drama Quenn.
Et c totalement mon opposer moi qui me fou de pas mal tout ce que le monde peu me sortir.
D'ailleurs une d'entre elle (qu'on va appeler Jane) et très très dans les extrêmes.
Aujourd'hui pendant le cours de sport un gars de son équipe lui a dit de participer un peu (et sans vouloir la vexé. Je suis d'accord avec ce gars elle ne fait aucun effort)
Et après elle a passer le midi à pleurer sur mon épaule qu'elle doit se mettre un masque de bonne humeur sinon ils vont tous pensé qu'elle est suic!daire. (Je ne crois pas qu'un cours de sport est motif de suic!de)
Également, par exemple, elle se fait légerement mal. Exemple : Elle tombe de sa chaise !
Et bah Jane va chialer toute les larmes de son corps et va dans beaucoup de cas demander à retourner chez elle. (Et desfois...Ça marche)
J'adore Jane quand elle est de bonne humeur c une personne super mais je trouve qu'elle va dans les extrêmes. Je lui est expliquer à de nombreuse reprise et elle me boude chaque fois donc j'en est un peu marre.
Que faire ???
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AmandeAttentive3
elle/elle
3hPas se faire comprendreIl a quelque temp j’ai avouer à mon entourage que je suis lesbienne ma mère a super bien compris ma soeur aussi et plein d’autre personne mes mon pere ne semble toujours pas avoir compris quand je lui es annoncer (pendant un après midi) il m’a dis d’être correct avec sa mes plus tard dans la soirée il allais a quelque pars et me demande si je veu aller alors il me dis sa comme sa <<veut tu venir avec moi au …………..il aura plein de beau gars pour toi j’en suis sure >>(les petit points ses pour pas dire la place afin de rester le plus possible anonyme)moi étant fâcher car j’avais l’impression qu’il m’a pas écouter quand je lui di je lui es pas fais de reproche sur sa j’ai laisser sa comme sa deux semaine plus tard il refait un commentaire dans se genre j’étais encore bloquer de dire que je suis lesbienne alors j’ai juste fait un petit rire nerveux bref sa continue comme sa mes je suis vraiment épuiser es que il a quelqu’un qui pourrait me donner des conseils svp
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TornadeProductif6
elle/elle·16 ans
6hmere poulema mere moblige a quitte mon chum et sa me mes en eta de panique jai meme penser au suicide et je me suis mutiler jai beaucoup de crise de panique enfin bref je ne vais pas bien jai mal help jen peu plus
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MatchaIngénieux1
elle/elle
11hSobreAujourd'hui je suis sobre d'automutilation de 196 jours! Dans 4 jours je serais à 200!
Je voulais vous dire de ne pas abandonner et que tout ira mieux un jour ou l'autre. J'ai eu des pensées suicidaires 2 ans, je skippais des repas depuis mes 11 ans, je m'automutilais depuis 2023.
Si j'avais dit à cette moi du passé que aujourd'hui j'écris ce post, elle m'aurait dit que je mens et que c'est mieux qu'elle abandonne. Mais j'ai continué malgré tout et j'en serais toujours reconnaissante.
C'est une mauvaise passe, pas une mauvaise vie xx
prenez soins de vous!
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SoleilSportive11
Ado TJ·elle/elle·19 ans
Hi @RoseOptimiste7 🩷
Oof… All of that sounded rough and raw. I can’t imagine how difficult it is for you right now I honestly want to thank you for sharing with us right now.
It takes courage to write these words.
It takes courage to show your vulnerability.
It takes courage to want to change.
It takes courage to face yourself every day despite all the negative thoughts.
You have that courage in you and I felt it through your words 🩷
I know my words won’t fix everything, but let me tell you something. Your life is worth living. Your appearance and self-esteem are worth improving with good self-care, and I don’t mean the toxic way of trying to achieve the perfect body or anything… What I mean is it’s worth taking care of your mind and body because your mental health and physical health matter. I’m not here to do that a speech about how suicidal thoughts are a sign that someone needs to be fixed. You’ ve said that you know that already. But I wanna tell you that if you need help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to professionals and get that help you deserve.
You deserve to love your body. You deserve to take care of your body properly and provide it with nutritious food.
You deserve to appreciate your features and you deserve to work on yourself to improve yourself.
That suit that you described does not seem to have a fixed shape yet, or a fixed state yet. You don’t have to confine yourself to that suit. You can choose whichever suits you and fits with your values, beliefs, and motivations. You can adjust the sleeves of the suit, you can change the color, etc. You can ultimately change how you feel in it. You deserve it, really 🩷
That monster might be scary. It might contain the negative thoughts you are holding against yourself, ones that are trying to bring you down. I want to tell you that you can filter that criticism. You can choose to shut off some of the negativity. It’s not always the best thing to do to avoid negative feelings, because it’s ok to feel them, but it’s important to let them go and learn to heal in the process. But if it feels too challenging sometimes, you have the right to shut off these negative thoughts, to accept that they are there, but to respectfully not focus on them in the moment. You have the right to prioritize your well-being 🩷
Take things one step at at time. No change comes easy nor does it comes fast. I understand that doubling in maths is no fun, but I believe that you can succeed this time.
One. step. at. a. time.
Try to get yourself a tutor, someone to help you with homework, someone who will motivate you to believe in you when you sometimes forget that. Try to succeed in class, no matter what success means to you. I believe that you will be able your classes with patience and perseverance. And it may seem like a simple message, but I still want to deliver it to you. Try. You’ll never know until you try.
You can do it.
You will be able to do it: one step at a time and with help if you would like.
I believe in you; keep going. Be kind to yourself 🩷
Don’t hesitate to reach out on the TJ forum if you wanna talk; we’ll be here :)