All penises are different: there are small ones, medium ones, large ones, hairy ones, curved ones, and wrinkly ones! No matter how big your penis is and what it looks like, you can experience pleasure and give your partner pleasure. If you’re worried about the size or looks of your penis and that’s preventing you from doing certain things, talk to a professional or another adult you trust.

I’m afraid my partner will make fun of my penis.

It’s normal to be anxious when you show your penis to your partner for the first time.

Remember that every body is different: no two penises are alike! Avoid judging yourself, hiding, or comparing yourself to other people. As much as possible, try to accept yourself the way you are. That will allow you to face the situation more confidently and overcome your fear.

And don’t forget that you’re still going through puberty and changes may still happen: give yourself a chance to finish growing.

Finally, don’t believe everything you see in pornography: it’s not a reliable source of information about sexuality! It can give you false expectations, worries, or comparison points.