The Shadow of Masculinism on Adolescence: How Can We Protect Our Youth?
The concerning rise of masculinism is impacting young people, particularly through online platforms. Let's explore together the dangers of coded language and toxic ideas often disguised as personal development and success strategies.
Where does this discourse come from and where are our youth exposed to it?
Masculinism, far from being a new phenomenon, has infiltrated the daily lives of our teenagers, mainly through the internet and social networks. Controversial figures like Andrew Tate, despite accusations of rape and human trafficking, continue to influence young people with misogynistic, homophobic, and racist rhetoric. These ideas, often presented under the guise of personal development and material success, are spreading on platforms like TikTok and Instagram, where they are relayed by algorithms that amplify their reach.
Coded language, toxic ideas
The danger often lies in the trivialization of this discourse. Phrases like "Your body, my choice", a hijacking of a feminist slogan, may seem harmless. However, they trivialize harassment and violence against women. It is essential to remind our young people that each individual is free to dispose of their own body and that these words are never acceptable. Studies in Quebec and the United Kingdom reveal the worrying impact of this discourse on young people, with cases of students openly expressing misogynistic and sexist views in the classroom.
Dialogue: Your best ally
Faced with this alarming situation, dialogue is the best weapon. Open the conversation with your teenager, without judgment or taboo. Find out if he or she has been exposed to this kind of discourse, their opinions, their feelings. Remind your teenager that their voice matters, that no one has the right to make them feel bad, and that you are there to support them. It is important to encourage them to question what they see online and to develop their critical thinking skills when faced with this information.
Cultivating critical thinking and empathy
Beyond dialogue, encourage your teenager to participate in activities that promote equality, respect, and critical thinking. Help them recognize the signs of a toxic relationship and develop empathy for others. Encouraging reflection on privileges and their impacts can also be beneficial. Offer them inspiring role models who embody values of equality and respect.
